Tell me the fantasy you have about how this will all play out. Tell me what you're avoiding. Tell me the part of your life that feels small and embarrassing and unfinished. I like to be real and raw about who we are and why we are here.

Dads preferred. We'll understand each other better. I like men who look lived-in. Dad bods. Body hair.

Receding hairlines. The confidence of someone who has real responsibility and still wants something irresponsible because he knows he can manage both.